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Watermelon cantaloupe and honeydew are all bad bitches. I ain’t gotta choose. #Poly 😬🤗
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@reignofglitter If they both just calm down and agree to talk to him both they can both keep getting money #poly 🤷🏾♂️
Immer wenn ich sehr viel Stress mit meiner f+ habe und wir ohne Grund diskutieren guck ich mir an was @XMrsX_ für Probleme in einer frischen Beziehung habe und merke das es scheinbar ‚normal‘ sein kann. Hoffen wir aufs beste! #polyamorie #poly #polygamie
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Alright, it's that time again, this time it's a short one.
#PTSD
#poly
#Abandonment
Here we are back in 2017, this time was a short 3 month relationship. At this point I forget their name, likely due to dissociation. We will call her F.
F and I started around I believe it was June in this timeframe. She had approached me at work and mentioned that she liked me. This was the first physical relationship I had developed after I had moved from the state I had been living in for 9 years. I figured it was something I could handle. Boy was I wrong.
Words of advice before continuing. If you plan to involve yourself in a relationship with someone that is poly, it may be good to be open minded and capable of understanding what that would entail. At this time, I was fully Monogamous and certainly had some relationship issues at this point.
Essentially, we had a good time for a short time before it all kinda just took a turn for the worst. A friend of mine was visiting and we had planned to take a trip up to Wyoming to watch the eclipse.
This was a trip between me, my friend, his close friend and F. What transpired during this time was a lack of closeness, painful thoughts and a severe lack of care from F. This ended up taking me to a place that I had not been in a very long time. Nothing like what you may be thinking, but a very dark place.
During the trip, we were sitting at the old faithful geyser waiting for it to go off for the experience, and I ended up letting my thoughts take over. Fears of abandonment and lack of empathy from F. causing me to essentially break down and make the whole experience basically lost.
The eclipse was amazing, just like the one in April, still an unforgettable experience. That is the only thing I focus on now from the trip.
After we returned, I shut down, went into Flight/Flee mode and essentially had to address my concerns with her. This ended up with her consoling me only a little bit before going right back to what she was doing behind my back. Now, having experience with friends and some personal experience with poly, realized my mistakes. However, it ended up with me essentially telling her to leave my apartment and don't come back after a couple weeks back home.
Cheating is not right, communication however, is key in any relationship. This was where things have fell short with most of my relationships. That being said, I look back at this experience in understanding of what happened and where both me and her went wrong.
The one important lessen with anything to know is the communicate communicate communicate. Communication is key and ANY relationship, friends, family or otherwise.
That's it for now. I hope you all have a good one.
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@fundhunter_co @_simonlambert The day of the invasion I added #POLY. Thought it was all a bluff at the time. You may laugh but I've learnt so much from that failure I almost needed to f**k up somewhere to learn how to invest (is that makes sense?)
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#Poly by #Plantronics #Voyager #4320 UC #Wireless On Ear #Headset #Charge #Stand #Plantronics #Headpho pureloot.com/f/p/31605 #Script #YashBOSS
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