I think my guy writer friends are often the better writers overall, but they aren't the soft writers. The heart-heavy writers. They are the burden-heavy writers.
Don't get me wrong. They have a lot of heart.
The difference is domestic.
It's the difference between the Ents and the Ent wives.
Protector/Provider - Heart, Home, Healer.
Remember, they are one flesh, divisible in a broken world.